Difficult Child had orientation for a nationally known fast food company last Sat. He didn't go for whatever the reason. I came unglued. He arranged to postpone it for today, with his start date this coming Monday. (Difficult Child has worked for this company before and I was thrilled they were willing to give him another chance. It's the only place I can think of who will hire cons and druggies..) Guess what? He was up all night drugging around and wouldn't get out of the bed to go to orientation!! I've come unglued again. What, pray tell, is he going to do for a job....ever?? This company, I'm sure, is done with him. Now what?? All this info came from his father (my ex) whom he lives with. My suggestion was...cut off ALL funds, cold turkey!! Ex and I just had this discussion LAST weekend that as long as he was giving him money, he had no reason to want a job. Back in the saddle. I.AM.TOTALLY.DISGUSTED!!!! With both of them. Difficult Child will never be anything but a slug as long has his father continues to enable. I am at a loss....I see this trainwreck happening before my eyes!