Hi, I'm having a hard time this week dealing with my situation(restraining order last year against my then 20 yr. old son). With Mothers Day and difficult child's 21st birthday last week, I miss him so much but know I did the right thing last year. My oldest sent difficult child a test message on his birthday that wished him a happy b-day and that we love him. I don't believe it got a response by my son, but he got it. It's too hard and all I can do is wait. My oldest texts him every so often with the name of a doctor to get treatment from. The waiting and I wonder if he will ever acknowledge he needs help.