Hi all. Well my son called husband today. He is meeting his probation officer and wanted proof that he had completed rehab. I told husband that we should not be getting that for him, he should talk to the therapists himself! So husband did find an email where they sent a letter to probation. He texted my son that info plus contact info for the therapists. The good news is my son contacted his probation officer and is following through. He also said he would like to meet husband for lunch! He does not want me there because he is still mad at me. That hurts but does not surprise me. I told my husband he should then go alone. I am stepping back and do not want to force contact. I think it is a good sign he wants to see his father. I am still pretty pessimistic but at least there are some good signs.