Scent of Cedar *
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A blogsite based on John Bradshaw's Healing the Shame That Binds You.
http://www.strugglinghero.com/healing-toxic-shame-how-do-i-get-rid-of-it-part-two/
This one has to do with intimacy and trust.
http://joy2meu.com/Fear_of_Intimacy.html
This one addresses the subject of shame. What it is. What purpose it serves. How it is set up in us.
http://emmashopebook.com/2013/06/11/another-way-to-silence-shame/
This one addresses eight types of mothering.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...xic-patterns-in-mother-daughter-relationships
Dealing with the shame of betrayal.
https://yourlifelifter.wordpress.com/2015/07/12/tips-for-dealing-with-the-shame-of-betrayal/
A discussion of toxic shame based on Brene Brown's work on shame and specific to daughters and fathers.
http://trustpsyche.com/tag/toxic-shame/
This one approaches the etiology of shame and intimacy, in the sense of the certainty of condemnation in revealing the self.
http://www.healingeagle.net/Eng/Quotes/FearInti.html
This one explores shame once we discover its impact in our lives.
http://robertmasters.com/writings/shame-from-toxic-collapse-to-healing-exposure/
This one walks us through etiology of shame without blaming the parent so much as understanding they too had been hurt.
http://thedovealliance.witnesstoday.org/intimacy.html
THIS MAY BE THE MOST RELEVANT TO US. It talks about the manner through which the abused child comes to see him or herself as whatever it is the abuser needs to see in them.
https://books.google.com/books?id=H...v=onepage&q=self betrayal toxic shame&f=false
Please add sites each of you feels will be helpful to us. Copa and Serenity of course, but each of you reading here with us.
Cedar
http://www.strugglinghero.com/healing-toxic-shame-how-do-i-get-rid-of-it-part-two/
This one has to do with intimacy and trust.
http://joy2meu.com/Fear_of_Intimacy.html
This one addresses the subject of shame. What it is. What purpose it serves. How it is set up in us.
http://emmashopebook.com/2013/06/11/another-way-to-silence-shame/
This one addresses eight types of mothering.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...xic-patterns-in-mother-daughter-relationships
Dealing with the shame of betrayal.
https://yourlifelifter.wordpress.com/2015/07/12/tips-for-dealing-with-the-shame-of-betrayal/
A discussion of toxic shame based on Brene Brown's work on shame and specific to daughters and fathers.
http://trustpsyche.com/tag/toxic-shame/
This one approaches the etiology of shame and intimacy, in the sense of the certainty of condemnation in revealing the self.
http://www.healingeagle.net/Eng/Quotes/FearInti.html
This one explores shame once we discover its impact in our lives.
http://robertmasters.com/writings/shame-from-toxic-collapse-to-healing-exposure/
This one walks us through etiology of shame without blaming the parent so much as understanding they too had been hurt.
http://thedovealliance.witnesstoday.org/intimacy.html
THIS MAY BE THE MOST RELEVANT TO US. It talks about the manner through which the abused child comes to see him or herself as whatever it is the abuser needs to see in them.
https://books.google.com/books?id=H...v=onepage&q=self betrayal toxic shame&f=false
Please add sites each of you feels will be helpful to us. Copa and Serenity of course, but each of you reading here with us.
Cedar