Many may remember my son who wanted to be eminem and caused a lot of conflict in our home. He's at college and doing well. His sister has always been quiet and well behaved. She's acted out recently and I don't want to make the same mistakes. We found out she'd been seeing a boy (who is 18 and just left for college another state away). We disapprove of him not only because he is 3 years older but the two times she's been in trouble it has involved alcohol with him. We saw a counselor and all signed a contract saying she wasn't to "date" above 2 years. And she can't "date" until 16. Well that's around the corner and I found out she is still seeing him when he comes home. She took my phone last night to use in bed since the parental controls for her phone go off at 11. She said she was online on my phone, which also doesn't have parental controls so I don't know what she did. I thought it would work itself out but I see it won't. Don't know what to do. They are in "a relationship" on FB and I know if I come down too hard it will cause even more anger and a desire to see him. Help please! She doesn't know that I know she's still seeing him. Debating on monitoring it or confronting with consequences.