Hi Malika, its great to hear from you, still finding this site a little ovewhelming and alittle confusing to use
p...Yes my son is in mainstream school...His 10 this June and I have kinda been concerned about the oncoming secondry education in a couple of years...I have struggled to get any help with him since he started nursery...He also has toileting issues that have dogged his life since he was two...His paediatrician wanted to put him on medications the very first time he was diagnosed which initially took 3 years to do, but I refused...I asked for any practical help or hints they could give to help him rather than putting him on medications that had very severe side effects to them...Luckily his doctor was ok with this and didn't push me but he couldn't actually signpost me towards anyone who could help so I was left to deal with everything by myself and told if I in the future I wanted to rethink my refusal to medications to get back to them...going abroad for a month long holiday and my son being out of his comfort zone and his normal routine his behaviour went absolutely crazy and I found it very difficult to handle him so I thought maybe the medications would just help calm his system down and give me time to look for ansmwers elsewhere...He was put on Respiridone 5mg initially but they didn't do him any good and made him incontinant...than he was put on Medikinet for over a year, his doses were changed to try and find the correct dosage, though it did make alittle bit of difference to his behaviour at school, it didn't do anything for home...I decided as there was no difference in his behaviour when he was at home there was no point poisoning his body for little reponse, so he was only on medications during week days and I learnt to cope with him on weekends...Last September when he started year 5 his new teachers noticed that on a few occasions that he missed his medications at school his behaviour was no better or worse than when he was on them...they suggested we stop his medications and they would try to cope with him as he was...I talked to his doctor and he agreed saying if there ever came a time when he would need them just to get in touch...since than his been doing ok behaviour wise at school, though educationally things seems to be getting harder for him to deal with...at home his constantley getting into trouble not listening to anything we say trying to force his own independance and want to socialise with kids much older than himself...My son Yousuf is also adopted by us...what a coincidence
When was your son diagnosed?
P.s I'm not sure of how to read your full post? I hope to hear from you soon Malika...Yasmin x
As one "newbie" to another, welcome!
Is your son in mainstream education? Do you feel the support you have in the UK is good? Is your son taking drugs for the ADHD? I'm British too but haven't lived there for years and am out of touch with what is happening on these questions.