husband's nephew is getting married in a couple weeks. husband is the best man. It is 11pm and I just found out, quite by accident, that there is a shower tomorrow for them. husband thinks I was supposed to have been invited. I suspect I was intentionally left off the list. I don't want to not go if I was supposed to have been invited (I don't care a whole lot for this bunch, but nephew is getting his head out of his butt, and his girlfriend has had a lot to do with that, and I do try to do what is right by family standards - just nothing extra for sister in law or the Brooms; we did go to see nephew graduate from the air force basic this summer), but I don't really want to call and ask, either, because there's a good chance husband's sis intentionally didn't invite me. So...any suggestions?