Well, I had to think about this because -----well it's not every day that one of your most loved and dear friends just blurts out "Well guess who has cancer." and drops the C bomb on you like that while being so brave when it's US who are supposed to be there for her. I mean you go about your day doing regular things and then like a fish on a line - my thoughts would jerk me right back to this and I'd think abouit you all over again, all night, all this morning and I kept thnking "WOW what do I say? - what would SHE say? - because you have a way of saying just the most well worded, comforting things, not too heavy, not too light. You're kinda like the "just right porridge, chair, bed, in the Goldy Locks of our lives." lol.
I don't know what you'd say to me D3 - but What I came up with is that if Cancer ever met a person who could kick its rear? I think it's about to meet her. I don't know WHY you. I don't know WHY now. I don't know that there is much of anything I can do BUT pray for you - and I DO know that those prayers in combination with the other people here, and in your family - will be very good, very strong and very special. Just. Like. YOU.
Love -
Star