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Mom? What's a difficult child?
I am really tired... LOL
So N was not potty trained when she entered this Montessori program... Miss M, said "No problem" So N has been doing really well, using the potty trying to do it by herself...
But I always check and make sure she wiped well, and at 3 she can't really wipe her
b u t t , which I though was slightly normal??? So I pick her up today and she is excited, first time she has gone poop at school!!! I ask her in the car if Miss M helped her and she says NO... We get home and yep... poop all over.
So I just called her, she made me feel like N was a freak, "Really!, well I have never had that problem with any of the 3 yo's, but then again usually they are all potty trained when they start" (like she was doing me some favor) I explained that all of K's pre-schools helped her... and all of my friends help their kids wipe past 3... she was BLOWN away, "Really, I have not had that experience... I would be happy to help her but I just assumed she could do it on her own"
I was like, well she couldn't use the potty when she started, why would she be able to wipe???
She agreed to help, but used this demeaning tone, and sugary voice... agreable but with that tone!!! Know what I mean????
She poop poop's any talk that N has issues... "Oh she is just working you" "Boy has she got your number" things like that... I am trying to not be defensive Mom here but with my "pleasant" week... I am on edge...
2nd honest one: So K's teacher calls... she wet her pants today.. at the end of the day. SO I show up K is really down, Miss B just escorts the rest of the class out to leave, So I get K changed amd we are leaving and Miss B says "It was no big deal" I said, "Oh I hope it isn't her new medications affecting her" Miss B says oh it was nothing a couple of kids had to go in a rush today... smile all sweetly and we leave...
I don't know why it bothered me... she hasn't aknowledged K's issues at all and keeps saying she is doing fine, which is great... but she kind of glazes over if I bring something up at all... like school refusal or the medications. Even if she had said "Oh I hope not" It would have made me feel a little better...
Am I just asking for too much (yes) is this reality... can all 3yo's wipe their b u t t's except mine???? I still have to help K...
Thanks
So N was not potty trained when she entered this Montessori program... Miss M, said "No problem" So N has been doing really well, using the potty trying to do it by herself...
But I always check and make sure she wiped well, and at 3 she can't really wipe her
b u t t , which I though was slightly normal??? So I pick her up today and she is excited, first time she has gone poop at school!!! I ask her in the car if Miss M helped her and she says NO... We get home and yep... poop all over.
So I just called her, she made me feel like N was a freak, "Really!, well I have never had that problem with any of the 3 yo's, but then again usually they are all potty trained when they start" (like she was doing me some favor) I explained that all of K's pre-schools helped her... and all of my friends help their kids wipe past 3... she was BLOWN away, "Really, I have not had that experience... I would be happy to help her but I just assumed she could do it on her own"
I was like, well she couldn't use the potty when she started, why would she be able to wipe???
She agreed to help, but used this demeaning tone, and sugary voice... agreable but with that tone!!! Know what I mean????
She poop poop's any talk that N has issues... "Oh she is just working you" "Boy has she got your number" things like that... I am trying to not be defensive Mom here but with my "pleasant" week... I am on edge...
2nd honest one: So K's teacher calls... she wet her pants today.. at the end of the day. SO I show up K is really down, Miss B just escorts the rest of the class out to leave, So I get K changed amd we are leaving and Miss B says "It was no big deal" I said, "Oh I hope it isn't her new medications affecting her" Miss B says oh it was nothing a couple of kids had to go in a rush today... smile all sweetly and we leave...
I don't know why it bothered me... she hasn't aknowledged K's issues at all and keeps saying she is doing fine, which is great... but she kind of glazes over if I bring something up at all... like school refusal or the medications. Even if she had said "Oh I hope not" It would have made me feel a little better...
Am I just asking for too much (yes) is this reality... can all 3yo's wipe their b u t t's except mine???? I still have to help K...
Thanks