Yes, that is the problem with living with parent's after we hit this stage in our life. They start to treat us like we are little kids again, and we start to treat them as the parent's that made us pull our hair out, despite the best of intentions. It must be genetic. :cry:
I will be hoping you can find your own place soon. Even a small little apartment, would probably less stress than what you are doing now. Hang in there. I am glad difficult child is safe, although he certainly is telling a tale.........teenagers!