I'm in a frustrating predicament and want to know if any of you have found yourselves where I am now. My husband is just not on the same page where it concerns understanding Seb, seeking the right professional help and the issue of discipline/support. It is crazy making. Until this year he just rejected outright any suggestion that something was amiss with his perfect boy. When the school and doctors agreed that there was concern, he started to listen. He even went as far to accept the ADHD diagnosis-- a condition which he rejected out of hand as BS. He has listened. But only up to a certainb point. I drafted a list of sensory issues, behavior and mood issues that I want to address with Seb's behavioral neuro on Monday. As I read them aloud, husband walked away, waving the list off as BS. "He's 7 Ella, stop looking for problems. I was just with him at baseball. They all run and jump excessively, they all get frustrated, they all can be excitable...". When I wanted to order some sensory equipment he laughed "You can't be for real. We're not turning our home into a rehab facility". I'm loathing the man to be honest. He's a workaholic and rarely available physically or emotionally. 99% of the time I am the one raising the boys. I feel like a single mother at times. I'm grateful that his too-busy-for-you lifestyle affords us a nice life but I feel like I am on my own. I am the one who lives with the issues and their effect 24/7. I am the one who does all the research, all the reading only to get waved off. Then husband sweeps in and offers punishments and discipline that are not in line with my thinking which he rejects. How on earth can I make the man listen?