One of my kids came home from college, and he told me what the other 2 are up to. He means difficult child and my 17 year old (and youngest) easy child. Most nights easy child goes over difficult child's house, they hang out and play this card game called "Magic." It seems harmless and I think it's great that the 2 are friends, they are brothers and difficult child didn't get along with his brothers growing up in our house so I try to encourage the relationship. Plus this youngest easy child kid suffers from depression, he's on medications, and I'm happy he has difficult child to talk to. difficult child is really a cool person,and I know he's helpful to easy child. I found this out recently. Long story short- easy child and this "teacher" are going to his jr. prom. I don't even know if that's legal. She is a kindergarden teacher from another town. HE IS 17!!! I know they all play this card game on Friday nights at a store, they are not alone so I think it's harmless. Well, last night my older college easy child went with my youger easy child to difficult child's house, the "teacher" was there, drunk out of her mind on Loco....AND a pharmacist was there who is difficult child's friend..(.this was all out of older easy child's mouth, ok?.....a secret for my ears only) selling drugs from his pharmacy, mostly VIAGRA (wth?) Younger easy child didn't do any...but older easy child told me I was a bad mom for letting younger easy child over there. How was I to know?....I had no idea they were meeting at difficult child's house. And...what are young kids doing taking VIAGRA???? I let husband handle it...(please don't laugh) this is what he said... husband: Why don't you take someone from your grade to your prom? husband: Ask a girl with big boobs. easy child: They all have boyfriends. husband: So? then they both laughed I had known this teacher was bad news, she mentioned something about my make-up which she never would have known about unless she went through my things. It's all in a cabinet. I'm angry at difficult child, but husband thinks the entire thing is hysterical. I don't have girls, he's their dad. If this continues it's probably a matter of time before easy child is geting drunk there, or taking pills from the pharmacist. Do you think? The teacher has no business near my son, right? Well at the moment both my easy child's are at difficult child's house, older easy child said he would "babysit" for me. (a secret, even from husband) I'm just really mad and needed to vent. Thanks for listening. My bff's daughter recently killed herself, she suffered from depression, I don't want anything to happen to my son.