And some of us... well, if it wasn't for MY adhd medications, there's no way I'd be there for difficult child - it takes too much concentrated brainpower, too many distractions, too much... pretty well everything!
Challenge? Can't afford to pay for the medication I really need, so have to use the old standby, but - even husband knows when I've missed a dose.
medications or no medications - its worth the diagnosis if you can get it. Really. It helps in relationships (husband now expects me to get distracted!). It helps in dealing with docs for kids... it couldn't be xxx because it doesn't run in your family (oh yes it does!). It helps in dealing with schools. And it sometimes even helps how you feel about yourself: no, I can't just "pull up my socks and be like everyone else", because I'm NOT like everyone else!
A good doctor quickly sorts out the wanna-bees from the real cases - there's a raft of markers that are hard to fake. (just that a good doctor is hard to find sometimes).