wolonfab
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Sometimes it is really hard to like him.... or rather his behavior.....Yesterday he lost it on the walk home from school.....and after being berated for my lack of love and being a big fat cow (he is only 6 mind you) he then informed me that he was not going to go to his mental health appointment cause he didn't want to play.....Its hard enuf to get these..he hasn't had one for 5 wks cause his new woman says she doesn't really have the time for him (what the?)... :smile:
I tried to convince him as all mothers do but after he destroyed the lounge room(well he threw everything from one one end to the other and then started to come my way with his bad scary look in his eyes) I seriously wanted to walk out of our house and not come back .... I know being a single mum is not meant to be easy but i am sure its not meant to be this hard either......I put him out side to run off the bad energy and he proceeded to run his bike into his sister repeatedly laughing all the while at me when i threatened to do it to him to see how he liked it :thumbsdown: .....
He then took my newly acquired railway sleepers (which weigh almost as much as a train I'm sure) and moved them all around the yard knocking things over in his path...After i got him out of the yard I banned the use of his play station (hoping he would go to his mental health appointment...one can dream) and he went feral..(imagine a mum telling a 6 yr old what to do!) He screamed and swore foul words that a little boy shouldn't know or ever say
I was left to call his mental health woman to say he refused to come in.... Her reply was "so what your saying is you don't want to bring him in?" .... of course you cant explain a child like My difficult child to them cause they don't get the behavior i get... he is perfect for them....:crying:...Even mum was shocked on the phone by his outburst yesterday.....
Mind you the day before he attacked a 6th grader twice his size ...they were playing and difficult child just turned(no reason for it) and knocked this poor boy down... split his chin......needless to say he was not flavor of the month and after school care.....when i turned up yesterday i was informed he had put his hand down the pans of one of the boys and in retaliation 3 of the boys wrapped rope around him while he played the play station and chocked him(he has bad rope cuts now) :sad:
At his recent review they said he cant concentrate in floor activities, rushes his work, has fine motor problems, severe anxiety, is a loner who gets into trouble outside, cant understand personal space etc etc but is a good helper who has become the rule enforcer for everyone (but him) in class.... I guess i can be proud... I am very tired bing a :warrior: mum ...... i need either a big pay rise or annual service leave..... Yeh right......
I tried to convince him as all mothers do but after he destroyed the lounge room(well he threw everything from one one end to the other and then started to come my way with his bad scary look in his eyes) I seriously wanted to walk out of our house and not come back .... I know being a single mum is not meant to be easy but i am sure its not meant to be this hard either......I put him out side to run off the bad energy and he proceeded to run his bike into his sister repeatedly laughing all the while at me when i threatened to do it to him to see how he liked it :thumbsdown: .....
He then took my newly acquired railway sleepers (which weigh almost as much as a train I'm sure) and moved them all around the yard knocking things over in his path...After i got him out of the yard I banned the use of his play station (hoping he would go to his mental health appointment...one can dream) and he went feral..(imagine a mum telling a 6 yr old what to do!) He screamed and swore foul words that a little boy shouldn't know or ever say
I was left to call his mental health woman to say he refused to come in.... Her reply was "so what your saying is you don't want to bring him in?" .... of course you cant explain a child like My difficult child to them cause they don't get the behavior i get... he is perfect for them....:crying:...Even mum was shocked on the phone by his outburst yesterday.....
Mind you the day before he attacked a 6th grader twice his size ...they were playing and difficult child just turned(no reason for it) and knocked this poor boy down... split his chin......needless to say he was not flavor of the month and after school care.....when i turned up yesterday i was informed he had put his hand down the pans of one of the boys and in retaliation 3 of the boys wrapped rope around him while he played the play station and chocked him(he has bad rope cuts now) :sad:
At his recent review they said he cant concentrate in floor activities, rushes his work, has fine motor problems, severe anxiety, is a loner who gets into trouble outside, cant understand personal space etc etc but is a good helper who has become the rule enforcer for everyone (but him) in class.... I guess i can be proud... I am very tired bing a :warrior: mum ...... i need either a big pay rise or annual service leave..... Yeh right......