rejectedmom
New Member
I put my foot in my mouth big time. Turns out it was a very sensitive subject for the club and I stood on the opposite side of their thinking. They did a huge fundraiser for this cause a few years back and is a key element in the club pride. We are new members of the club and only learning of past events now. I am not opposed to this cause just stated that it isn't right for me personally. I now feel like I am being somewhat ostracized and talked about behind my back as a result of this unfortunate conversation with one of the officers. I am getting kinda depressed about it and skipped this weeks meeting entirely. I never would have said anything if I had realized the background relationship. It came up in conversation about a totally different subject. husband loves this club and is perfectly aligned with them on this subject. He thinks we should just continue to go and ride things out but I am not of the same mind and am having alot of anxiety over it. It would be very easy to just fade away since we are so new. What do you think? Should I stay or go? Do you think people will forget about it after a while if I keep a positive attitude and work hard at the fundraisers?? 'RM