Cass40
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Hello everyone after not being here for sometime now I'm back with difficult child issues once again but this time with my grandson,looks like I'm going to be doing it all over again.Our grandson is the son of my oldest difficult child he was taken from birth by CAS and put in care my husband and I fought CAS for 14 months to get custody of him as the parents didnt have a chance.We have been raising him since he was 14 months old he was a very good baby at the age of 3 behaviours started to develop.He will get up very early in the morn between 5:30 to 6:30 not often will he sleep in. From the time he opens his eye til the time he goes to bed he goes non stop he has a issue with listening its like you can tell him over and over again and he still does things like nothing had been said. Consequences dont fiz on him,time outs ,things taken away and so on and he will go right back and do the same thing.He started school in Sept everyday all day J.K his teacher just loves him has said hes her smartest student in his class (both parents had learning problems) which is great news.She says he has a great memory and is doing great that way in class but he has the same issues at school then at home he goes goes goes and doesnt listen.I've already had 3 calls from the principle since Sept.Hes almost ready to be kicked off the bus I already had to drive him cause he got a 2 day bus suspension he wont sit on the bus throws things and doesnt listen.This is his second bus driver and she has the same complaints as the first.Hes being taken to the office by the bus driver Mon morn cause of issues Friday.He sees his dad a couple times a month but not long visits cause dad still wont get help for his bipolar and difficult child grandson is handful enough.Mother hasnt been in the picture for 1yr and 2months she had visits but wasnt involved as she should be dedided to move out of town and havent heard from her.Just found out a few months ago that mother smoked marijuana throughout whole pregnancy.
So thats a bit of an udate where Im at these days I'm trying my best to figure out what triggers difficult child grandsons issues but he's a tough one to figure out I'm lucky to have my mom take him every other weekend for us to have a break.
So thats a bit of an udate where Im at these days I'm trying my best to figure out what triggers difficult child grandsons issues but he's a tough one to figure out I'm lucky to have my mom take him every other weekend for us to have a break.