Daughter is refusing to get up for school again, making excuses once again. Two classes is all and its still hell. All she wants to do is stay on the computer and be a hermit. She refuses to do her homework as well still issues with bathing. She has no interest anymore to get a job or her license in just over a year. She will get no where in live and will be homeless as an adult.
Son also refusing to get ready, only been playing for an hr instead. Wont to his H.W. either the names the violence the threats just dont stop, he will have a roof over his head-IN PRISON.
I have no faith in my kids anymore, they will never be able to function-I see this now. Im also dropping both kids from the schools and enrolling them to the Public school and letting them go to Juvenile courts. I know, their father will get custody of them because I cant get them to go to school. I REFUSE to go to Jail for anyone .. so me getting arrested for them not going to school- Ill take other options first.
It makes me Ill how she hates me and tells me shutup, sons threats to kill, damage, bad names every single day..every single year. I told them they need help and I just cant seem to help them anymore. They are my life but they dont care. They dont. No remorse esp son. None. Its ALL about them, if its not - BOTH kids give hell until no return. I dont think daughter has remorse or cares either.
They are both grounded but this never works anyways..no matter how long or what I take away.
I thought all these years I was being punished as were my kids because of anything I did from my first breathe of life.. then I lately thought.." Maybe just maybe I was put here as well as my kids to better help others and start programs and help sites etc... " But Im going back to my first thought....Because you see, its my kids, my exes, my so called family n friends.
Son is playing daughter is asleep again..... its time to leave but they dont care.
Son also refusing to get ready, only been playing for an hr instead. Wont to his H.W. either the names the violence the threats just dont stop, he will have a roof over his head-IN PRISON.
I have no faith in my kids anymore, they will never be able to function-I see this now. Im also dropping both kids from the schools and enrolling them to the Public school and letting them go to Juvenile courts. I know, their father will get custody of them because I cant get them to go to school. I REFUSE to go to Jail for anyone .. so me getting arrested for them not going to school- Ill take other options first.
It makes me Ill how she hates me and tells me shutup, sons threats to kill, damage, bad names every single day..every single year. I told them they need help and I just cant seem to help them anymore. They are my life but they dont care. They dont. No remorse esp son. None. Its ALL about them, if its not - BOTH kids give hell until no return. I dont think daughter has remorse or cares either.
They are both grounded but this never works anyways..no matter how long or what I take away.
I thought all these years I was being punished as were my kids because of anything I did from my first breathe of life.. then I lately thought.." Maybe just maybe I was put here as well as my kids to better help others and start programs and help sites etc... " But Im going back to my first thought....Because you see, its my kids, my exes, my so called family n friends.
Son is playing daughter is asleep again..... its time to leave but they dont care.