I just wanted to let everyone know that things have calmed down a bit. (with me) Things are still the same but, I seem to be ALOT calmer and more accepting of it all! Guess that isn't a BAD thing! Before I hire an atty we will put a $$ amount on it. ALSO, I want to know if there are any mental facilities that she COULD be transferred to and what the likelyhood of it happening would be. difficult child 2 Acts as if she is in Summer Camp! She just LOVES where she is. I thought this would make me feel sad but, it doesn't! I am ok with things going well, even if it isn't with me! My grandson is awesome! He is cutting 5 teeth and not sleeping well but, he is SUCH a HAPPY boy! husband and I briefly discussed what we would do if difficult child 1 was currently pregnant. She had her IUD removed 2 months ago and has been going full steam ahead so the likelyhood of that is VERY good. We didnt' come to any decisions, just wanted it in his mind in case she is. Hope everyone has a WONDERFUL Meltdown FREE weekend!