There are days when i think i am qualified to negotiate the middle east peace talks having spent 48 hours with my difficult child.
Scene 1
The wall clock says 9pm. difficult child's at the computer. Me, weary mom is readying for bed.
me: I want you in bed early tonight you have a big test tomoorrow.
difficult child: how about shower at ten in bed reading at 10:30 lights off at 11?
me: How about shower done before 10 in bed at 10 lights off at 10:30?
difficult child: What if i take my shower before 10 and then i can IM until 1030 when i promise i will get right off and into bed?
me: No, i want you off of the computer and hour before you get into bed.
difficult child: That's ridiculous!...(20 minutes of obsenities and screaming--includes the lines none of my friends have to, stop reading those #$%^#@ studies about kids and sleep, i never get to do anything, you don't trust me to do anything, etc)
me: It's now 9:45 Get into the shower.
difficult child fumbles an mumbles around his room goes into the bathroom
10:15 me: (to bathroom door)--why isn't the water running?--(peek in see difficult child sitting on toliet with psp)
me: Give me psp now and GET INTO SHOWER!
gsg: i'm pooping! can't i do anything in peace? Why are you always accusing me of doing something wrong? Why do you have to hover. I am sick of this ! (next breath) If i get into the show now, can i stay up until 11?
scene ends hear shower running. clock on wall reads 10:50pm. Me: slumped on floor outside of bathroom banging my head against the wall.
I keep thinking this constant negotiationg has to have some other pay off... :rolleyes:
Scene 1
The wall clock says 9pm. difficult child's at the computer. Me, weary mom is readying for bed.
me: I want you in bed early tonight you have a big test tomoorrow.
difficult child: how about shower at ten in bed reading at 10:30 lights off at 11?
me: How about shower done before 10 in bed at 10 lights off at 10:30?
difficult child: What if i take my shower before 10 and then i can IM until 1030 when i promise i will get right off and into bed?
me: No, i want you off of the computer and hour before you get into bed.
difficult child: That's ridiculous!...(20 minutes of obsenities and screaming--includes the lines none of my friends have to, stop reading those #$%^#@ studies about kids and sleep, i never get to do anything, you don't trust me to do anything, etc)
me: It's now 9:45 Get into the shower.
difficult child fumbles an mumbles around his room goes into the bathroom
10:15 me: (to bathroom door)--why isn't the water running?--(peek in see difficult child sitting on toliet with psp)
me: Give me psp now and GET INTO SHOWER!
gsg: i'm pooping! can't i do anything in peace? Why are you always accusing me of doing something wrong? Why do you have to hover. I am sick of this ! (next breath) If i get into the show now, can i stay up until 11?
scene ends hear shower running. clock on wall reads 10:50pm. Me: slumped on floor outside of bathroom banging my head against the wall.
I keep thinking this constant negotiationg has to have some other pay off... :rolleyes: