However you celebrate the holiday I hope you all can find some peace and joy in your familes/lives. I know this is a very difficult time for many families, when things were darkest for me I hated the holidays and had to force myself to find joy, and some years I just made it through the day by telling myself it was just another day. I hope that each and every one of you has some blessing in your life that will help you enjoy this time with your loved ones. I am looking forward to enjoying my girls tonight and tomorrow and have cooked all day today for tomorrow's dinner. My difficult child has been doing very well, but is involved in a destructive relationship and I hope this year she makes the move to change that. But our relationship has never been better and for that I am very grateful. Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all of you.