I just caught my 16yo Difficult Child in a bunch of lies. The last time I posted about her failing a random UA...meth...again. She had 10 days of house arrest (could attend school). And the past week she had a 6pm curfew. Last night, a guy friend wanted her to go to a rodeo. But it was after curfew...so we all went. We let them sit by each other, and we set in a different bleacher section. It went well. This kid seems decent, is a CMA, and works for his dad is a family business.
But today, she had another friend pick her up. We have met this kid also... But the vehicle parked two houses down, was not the same vehicle he drove several months ago. And the kicker is...he's black, but the arm I could see on the drivers side window opening was not black.
She did have GPS on and a few minutes later she texted they stopped at his friends house for a few minutes. I checked GPS, and I knew which house...she had been hanging out there last fall. When she was using.
I confronted her via texts that it was odd that his friend lived in the old crack house. She replied that he lived in the house on the corner. I told her if she was going to hang with her druggy friends she shouldn't lie about it...That I didn't have time to keep playing the same games. That I would hire a detective, using the funds I had set aside for college, because if she was back in that circle, she wouldn't need money for her education.
Then she texted her dad, and wanted to come over and talk to him. He sent me a screen shot of her complaining that I was going to hire a private detective and waste all her college $. His reply...then stop lying. Then she tried to manipulate him, saying thanks for not being there for her. He replied...stop playing the victim. Yes!!
Now she said she is coming back home. I reminded her that I have the tag number for the Lincoln Navigator she left in and not to even THINK of running away.
And last week...she snowballed the social workers with how well she was doing, and they were going to ask the court to drop the level of services. Nope. I am contacting them tomorrow.
I don't know if she used or not... But she knows I am not going to play a charade.
Gloves are off...
Ksm
But today, she had another friend pick her up. We have met this kid also... But the vehicle parked two houses down, was not the same vehicle he drove several months ago. And the kicker is...he's black, but the arm I could see on the drivers side window opening was not black.
She did have GPS on and a few minutes later she texted they stopped at his friends house for a few minutes. I checked GPS, and I knew which house...she had been hanging out there last fall. When she was using.
I confronted her via texts that it was odd that his friend lived in the old crack house. She replied that he lived in the house on the corner. I told her if she was going to hang with her druggy friends she shouldn't lie about it...That I didn't have time to keep playing the same games. That I would hire a detective, using the funds I had set aside for college, because if she was back in that circle, she wouldn't need money for her education.
Then she texted her dad, and wanted to come over and talk to him. He sent me a screen shot of her complaining that I was going to hire a private detective and waste all her college $. His reply...then stop lying. Then she tried to manipulate him, saying thanks for not being there for her. He replied...stop playing the victim. Yes!!
Now she said she is coming back home. I reminded her that I have the tag number for the Lincoln Navigator she left in and not to even THINK of running away.
And last week...she snowballed the social workers with how well she was doing, and they were going to ask the court to drop the level of services. Nope. I am contacting them tomorrow.
I don't know if she used or not... But she knows I am not going to play a charade.
Gloves are off...
Ksm