My 4 yr old has bad dreams, hits staff, throws objects, screams, pinches, bites. I'm very worried and concerned that they will no longer watch him. We are living in a transitional living program. My three children and I come for a life time of violence, though I never wanted to admit that was true. Their father never hit me, just never provided therefore, we lived with his mother, who did hit me, throw things, throw my children and me out often. I finally was more scare to stay than to go. But, how do I now help my children? I feel that I have felled to protect them in the past and that I'm felling them now because I don't know how to change the mark this has had on all of my children's lives.