This is very hard for me to do. I hate asking for help, but I no longer know what to do for my 6 year old daughter. She has become increasingly aggressive toward her siblings, stays in trouble at school, and is constantly in trouble at home. I have tried positive reinforcement, time outs, giving extra attention, and even corporal punishment as a last result to no avail. I have spoken to the peds. doctor and she has made a referral to a behavoiral specialist. Unfortunately, we have not yet gotten a response for an appointment. I was told sometimes it takes months to get an appointment. I feel like I have failed my daughter. Where did my once smiling, bubbly, little girl go to? I sit here with tears streaming down my face feeling guilty because it is almost bedtime and I can get some peace. I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I can't help it. Please help me. I just don't know what to do anymore. Is this my fault? Am I the problem?