Hello parents,
I am a 28 year old woman to 2 wonderful children - Gavin, 8 and Addy, 6. Gavin was recently diagnosed with a combo of asperger's and adhd and is currently on Focalin XR 15 MG. He is in 2nd grade and was having a rough time from the start of the year with focusing, sitting still and listening, not disrupting his classmates, etc. He is very, very smart and does very well in school -- it just takes him a long time to complete assignments. His teacher had an IEP written up on him along with the school social worker and they suggested we see a pscyhologist, which is where we got the diagnosis, which led to him taking the medication.
Well he first first on a smaller dosage of Focalin and the teacher said that he was doing great but only up until noon. Our doctor suggested the Focalin XR since it is an extended release and would be a better alternative to taking the same pill twice a day.
We went from the teacher saying that he was doing so much better to now saying that he has reverted back to being worse than ever. He is not completing his assignments, he's disrupting classmates, etc. I am very upset that he seemed to be progressing well and is now having such a horrible time with the exact same medication, just different dosage. How could this be? He also says that he is tired a lot. He also says that none of the other boys want to play with him anymore and it just breaks my heart that my son has been outcasted like this.
I have been upset crying all evening about it not knowing what to do. I know that we should see his pscychologist again to reevaluate the situation... and perhaps try another medication. He is losing interest in school and he used to love school. He thinks it is boring and pointless and it's a struggle to get him to finish homework. I'm just really concerned for my young boy, almost to the point of wanting to attempt homeschooling him if things progress worse down the road.
I live in Wilmington, North Carolina and I don't have any friends that understand the situation. I could use a sympathetic ear from those who get what it is like dealing with a child like Gavin. He is a loving, sweet and smart boy and I want what is best for him. Also, he is a huge video gamer and it is hard to pull him away from his games. Any suggestions of some other hobbies or clubs for boys with adhd/aspergers would be great. He is not great at sports so needs more intellectual and social stimulation. Thank you parents so much and I can't wait to get to know some of you more.
Bridgette
I am a 28 year old woman to 2 wonderful children - Gavin, 8 and Addy, 6. Gavin was recently diagnosed with a combo of asperger's and adhd and is currently on Focalin XR 15 MG. He is in 2nd grade and was having a rough time from the start of the year with focusing, sitting still and listening, not disrupting his classmates, etc. He is very, very smart and does very well in school -- it just takes him a long time to complete assignments. His teacher had an IEP written up on him along with the school social worker and they suggested we see a pscyhologist, which is where we got the diagnosis, which led to him taking the medication.
Well he first first on a smaller dosage of Focalin and the teacher said that he was doing great but only up until noon. Our doctor suggested the Focalin XR since it is an extended release and would be a better alternative to taking the same pill twice a day.
We went from the teacher saying that he was doing so much better to now saying that he has reverted back to being worse than ever. He is not completing his assignments, he's disrupting classmates, etc. I am very upset that he seemed to be progressing well and is now having such a horrible time with the exact same medication, just different dosage. How could this be? He also says that he is tired a lot. He also says that none of the other boys want to play with him anymore and it just breaks my heart that my son has been outcasted like this.
I have been upset crying all evening about it not knowing what to do. I know that we should see his pscychologist again to reevaluate the situation... and perhaps try another medication. He is losing interest in school and he used to love school. He thinks it is boring and pointless and it's a struggle to get him to finish homework. I'm just really concerned for my young boy, almost to the point of wanting to attempt homeschooling him if things progress worse down the road.
I live in Wilmington, North Carolina and I don't have any friends that understand the situation. I could use a sympathetic ear from those who get what it is like dealing with a child like Gavin. He is a loving, sweet and smart boy and I want what is best for him. Also, he is a huge video gamer and it is hard to pull him away from his games. Any suggestions of some other hobbies or clubs for boys with adhd/aspergers would be great. He is not great at sports so needs more intellectual and social stimulation. Thank you parents so much and I can't wait to get to know some of you more.
Bridgette