I am so glad I found this site!! It was nice to see that we are not alone. Me and my husband adopted 8 childern that we fostered. They are age 5-14 yrs. 2 bio brothers, a brother and sister. and a brother and 3 sisters. Most of them have issues. D & C the brothers are both odd, poss.BiPolar (BP) with severe behaviors.C just got out of a long term treatment center on the 3rd, he is trying to tests the limits but not too bad, he is 8. His brother D is 7 yrs he is odd, mild mr, desruptive disorder, he was in a neuro-psychiatric facility for 9 months which didn't seem to be very helpful. I finally got to see a developmental center thru children's hospital and they are going to do a neruo psychiatric evaluation on the 9th. Thanks to this site I was able to ask about it from reading all the threads, so many of y'all had suggested it. If you could tell me what to expect from this, I am hoping that they will help me find out how his brain ticks. D is the most severe of all our children and takes alot of our time. He can be so sweet and then blow in the next min.