If look at my signature I totally get that not cleaning the cat box is not an option; 4 boxes indoors & I still clean them twice a day.
I usually have to do everything for myself also, I think back to one time I drove to the ER to get a couple stitches after Angel went upside my head with a dinner plate. (there was a bone in her chicken) Anyway they wouldn't let me leave with my car I actually had to pay for a taxi to take me & my girls 50ft. to get into my car in the ER parking lot to get home. Some legal nonsense can't let you drive with a head injury?
Wow laying around doing nothing is hard to get use to, I don't think I would have made it thru bed rest pregnancy to keep my youngest if hadn't been for my love of reading. The George Martin - Game of thrones books are a good read and no worries about running out of material there are 5 of them and they are around 800 pages each. I'm on the 5th one for the second time I hope he hurries up and finishes #6.
Oh almost forgot if you are a member of a church put in a call to the minister, the church women's group would come over a couple times a week to clean, do laundry & help catch up on dishes. My son was only 11yo at the time & Angel was still in diapers those church ladies were a blessing and so were those casseroles they would bring; was nice break from the PB&J (Danny didn't know how to cook).
Feel better soon but don't rush it
Nancy
I usually have to do everything for myself also, I think back to one time I drove to the ER to get a couple stitches after Angel went upside my head with a dinner plate. (there was a bone in her chicken) Anyway they wouldn't let me leave with my car I actually had to pay for a taxi to take me & my girls 50ft. to get into my car in the ER parking lot to get home. Some legal nonsense can't let you drive with a head injury?
Wow laying around doing nothing is hard to get use to, I don't think I would have made it thru bed rest pregnancy to keep my youngest if hadn't been for my love of reading. The George Martin - Game of thrones books are a good read and no worries about running out of material there are 5 of them and they are around 800 pages each. I'm on the 5th one for the second time I hope he hurries up and finishes #6.
Oh almost forgot if you are a member of a church put in a call to the minister, the church women's group would come over a couple times a week to clean, do laundry & help catch up on dishes. My son was only 11yo at the time & Angel was still in diapers those church ladies were a blessing and so were those casseroles they would bring; was nice break from the PB&J (Danny didn't know how to cook).
Feel better soon but don't rush it
Nancy