I have been going to parenting classes for the past 3 months. I enrolled difficult child 2 in them to help with coping with Bio moms problems. and mine was mandatory. Found out I am doing most right but .... I am very strict when I don't need to be so tough... ie time out doesn't have to sit looking straight ahead hands in lap not moving... did learn a few things... all in all think it was great just to go talk to others who are coping with same things.