Klmno, I know my daughter was too good for him not the other way around. As for the straying, I do not know if he has done the deed or not. It is not in his best intrest to let us know since there is and infidelity clause in their state's divorce laws. He has been bugging her for an "open" marriage she refused. Hensce he wants the divorce.
Hazoi, I believe that kind of disability is based on income and you are correct that her situation will change after the split. We will look at that and welfare if she needs to.
Flutterby, She doesn't live in an alimony state. They award it for short periods of time but the courts want the sposes to become self supporting and work towards that. I afree that it is time for her to find a shark but she isn't in that place yet.
Pasajes4, You are so right my heart is breaking for her.
Steely. Wipedout. Insane. Rabbit, CrazyinVA, Tedo, DS3, & everyone Thank you all for the hugs and the prayers. I truly believe it will help. Heck it already has. I can't talk abut this anywhere but here. Until now I have kept it bottled up inside. -RM