Poor husband

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by JJJ, Mar 7, 2010.

  1. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    It is his turn to visit Kanga today. I could tell he did not want to go :(

    She has been so manic and demanding on the phone this week. The visit is going to be hard. It is so frustrating when she gets like this.

    So, over 5 hours in the car to spend 2 hours redirecting her to be appropriate and telling her no to crazy requests. No actual 'bonding' cause she is so wrapped up in her demands.

    I'm going to try and have a great dinner ready for him when he gets home.
  2. DaisyFace

    DaisyFace Love me...Love me not

    O that sounds tough! I'll be thinking of him today.

    Let us know how it goes...

  3. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Ugh. I am sorry. This has to be so incredibly difficult. Wise to have something good for husband to come home to.
  4. klmno

    klmno Active Member

    I feel for him. It's hard enough to visit our difficult child's when they aren't acting like that, in my humble opinion. I think if I have to sit in another plastic chair after two weeks from now, I am just going to scream!
  5. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    K - we've told Kanga that if she ends up in jail, she will NOT be visited. I do not do locked doors!
  6. gcvmom

    gcvmom Here we go again!

    Maybe he should just wear headphones during the visit... just sayin'...
  7. timer lady

    timer lady Queen of Hearts

    I know that pain ~ visits with wm come to mind. I'm glad you'll be treating husband with TLC when he returns home.
  8. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    husband is home. He said the visit was fine. Kanga was whiny and complained alot.

    Thanks for the support!
  9. klmno

    klmno Active Member

    I'm glad to hear she didn't get the best of him! Enjoy your dinner together!
  10. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Glad it went better than expected.
  11. Shari

    Shari IsItFridayYet?

    Not meaning to be inappropriate, but hugs to you both. Has to be so hard.