Ok warrior moms and dads- I could use any guidance you have! Tomorrow we have a PPT meeting with the school district to schedule the Special Education testing to make sure difficult child 1 doesn't have any Learning Disability (LD)'s that are contributing to his ODD meltdowns at school (often writting assignments trigger him, though when he actually sits down and commits to doing it, he has no problems). He currently has a 504 Plan that has been in place since he started school back in Kindergarten 4 years ago (he's now in 2nd grade) to cover any behavior mods in the classroom and to allow him to work with the school SW. I don't really know the rules and rights or where to find that information. I only know something about that they have 45 days to do this testing or to schedule this testing or something about 45 days, but I know nothing about what tests they will and will not do and yadda, yadda, yadda. And I know that they've told me a neuropsychologist test is a slim possibility *IF* all of their testing comes up normal and they want to continue to look for a cause. (and yes, I asked the psychiatric hospital psychiatrist and SW do schedule or refer him for a neuropsychologist test and they both refused). So, if you can point me in the direction of some easy to follow info or just give me some basics I should know before I walk into the meeting tomorrow, that would be great!