I just found out that I am pregant with my 3rd child... Quite a shock, since FF1 & I decided a long time ago that we were going to be done after B2. I am terrified what affect this will have on our family, since B2 is the baby and the challenging one... B2 still has sooo many agressive tendancies and I fear that I will be kicked or hit in the stomache. I have talked to his therapist about this and he is going to work with him about this as the baby's arrival gets closer and I start to show. I am also afraid to tell my parents about this baby because I think that they will blow a gasket, since they are well aware of the challenges we already face daily with raising a difficult child. FF1 has already played the "what if" game with B2 just to see what his reaction would be to having a baby sister/brother. He said that he would "run it over with the car" - at 3 1/2 that scares me a little bit (even though he has said that about his older brother too)... I know that it would never happen, but it still is conerning to me. I am going to mention it to the therapist when B2 goes back in 2 weeks. I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of how to get children ready to accept a new sibling? Maybe books or other ideas. Thanks!