Has anyone else gone through all of this? I start with innocent until proven guilty? Currently, I still see the same behaviors, with most recent being a mother of one of his friend's girlfriend, in TX, on facebook reporting difficult child is perverted and twisted in his texts/words to her. Then I wonder if there is a rape kit involved in the charges against difficult child. Then I wonder how many sex offenders only get charged with a misdemeanor because they are less than 5 years older than the victim. Then I wonder how man sex offenders are currently in court? Then I wonder if I am right/wrong about my beliefs on rehabilitation? Then I wonder why I am trying to rectify a family that enables such behaviors, even though youngest needs a father, sister, and brother (but of course not with their behaviors). Then I wonder how big the fight is going to be against daddy and sister who think difficult child is innocent and is only being charged with 2 other boys with "intent" to x,y,z. Then I thank the support group youngest has set up at school and with her friends right now. Most of whom are just learning -from her- about it all. Then I end up with the fact that I must be just out right loony to have gotten myself in this mess? How does a mother handle the fact that her son is getting worse about his behaviors to women?