Helpless29
Well-Known Member
My last post was of my sons disturbing phone video chat to me , he was on drugs & exposed his private part to me, this happened April 12th , he hasn’t tried contacting me or never called or texted to say Happy Mother’s Day but I wasn’t expecting him to . I don’t know if he’s aware of what he did but I kinda think so . Anyway I heard from his friend he’s doing good , I know he still has his apartment & is working construction.I know him & his dad has had contact over messenger. My question is should I contact him?I do miss him & would like to see him despite what he did. I mentioned this to my husband & he acourse said he feels like I will somehow be sucked into my sons drama or will get back on a emotional roller coaster , but when is the right time? Is there ever a right time?? I know I been at peace & happy since I distanced myself from him & I am happy to know he’s working & has a home , should I just let things be & not contact him? I do miss him a lot but not all the drama. I’m confused