timer lady
Queen of Hearts
has a problem with boys bothering her & wanting her to do things she doesn't want to do. What should I do, ummm, tell her to do?
After a highly anxious, crisis filled night kt finally blurted that out to me.
First question from mom to kt - do I need to worry about someone's safety? Nooooooooooo.
Well, miss kt you tell your friend that her body is her own - no one can touch or hurt her unless she allows it. If someone is "forcing" your friend she needs to yell & scream; tell an adult.
Mom, I'm - uh, my friend is okay.
Fine, sweetie - you can talk to me anytime with-o melting down with anxiety & I love you.
kt still isn't sleeping - her anxiety is over the top. Will not allow anyone to comfort her or rub her back. husband & I are keeping a close eye on her as she was talking about killing herself earlier tonight - then she tried to run. She's safely in her room playing with her dolls. Won't let herself fall asleep.
I'm considering keeping her home from school tomorrow & calling in with this issue. I'm also going to try to get her into therapist tomorrow.
Did I miss anything? Any words of advice?
After a highly anxious, crisis filled night kt finally blurted that out to me.
First question from mom to kt - do I need to worry about someone's safety? Nooooooooooo.
Well, miss kt you tell your friend that her body is her own - no one can touch or hurt her unless she allows it. If someone is "forcing" your friend she needs to yell & scream; tell an adult.
Mom, I'm - uh, my friend is okay.
Fine, sweetie - you can talk to me anytime with-o melting down with anxiety & I love you.
kt still isn't sleeping - her anxiety is over the top. Will not allow anyone to comfort her or rub her back. husband & I are keeping a close eye on her as she was talking about killing herself earlier tonight - then she tried to run. She's safely in her room playing with her dolls. Won't let herself fall asleep.
I'm considering keeping her home from school tomorrow & calling in with this issue. I'm also going to try to get her into therapist tomorrow.
Did I miss anything? Any words of advice?