husband and i were talking last night, and we agreed it would be a good idea if we decided ahead of time what our response to certain specific situations would be. So I would like everyone's opinion to these scenerios:
The next time difficult child blows his check or does not come up with the rent, should we a. not let him come over to the house (don't know if I can do that one, I will probably cave) b. take away car (getting to work on bus possible but difficult due to limited bus schedule, think difficult child will just stop going to work) c. shut off cellphone (he doesn't have internet or TV yet, has beater car liable to break down, would limit his ability to call motor club)
Stocked the kitchen with basic food (eggs, peanut butter, frozen pizzas, ramen noodles, etc. When these start to run out, should I go shopping again?
When he starts going nuts because he is out of cigarettes, should we buy him a pack?
The next time difficult child blows his check or does not come up with the rent, should we a. not let him come over to the house (don't know if I can do that one, I will probably cave) b. take away car (getting to work on bus possible but difficult due to limited bus schedule, think difficult child will just stop going to work) c. shut off cellphone (he doesn't have internet or TV yet, has beater car liable to break down, would limit his ability to call motor club)
Stocked the kitchen with basic food (eggs, peanut butter, frozen pizzas, ramen noodles, etc. When these start to run out, should I go shopping again?
When he starts going nuts because he is out of cigarettes, should we buy him a pack?