I'll try to keep this brief. Suffice to say that my husband has come to the conclusion that his health issues are directly related to a boundary setting decision I made relative to an aspect of our sex life about three years ago. That's right! His ADHD diagnosis... (10 years ago) His cavernous hemangioma in his brain... (discovered 18 months ago) The brain surgery... (15 months ago) His weight gain... (up and down for 20 years) His sleep apnea... (20+ years) His high cholesterol... (this past year) His impulse control issues... (his whole life) Yup. It's ALL MY FAULT. Amazing! I suspect he'll figure out a solution to the rest of the world's ills any day now, too. And no doubt THOSE are my fault as well.