Well, I have a decision to make. As you all may remember from previous posts my 14 1/2 year old son has snuck out repeatedly, taken our car at least 3 times in the middle of night joy riding with friends, admitted to smoking pot, has been kicked out of school (is currently in Alternative School). His Dad has agreed to pay for him to go to a therapeutic boarding school. Now, I don't know if I can let go of him. I love to see him everyday and hear his voice, and see his smile, DESPITE, all of the drama and hijinks. I feel like I'm giving up on him if I send him, and feel like a failure. Not to mention I would constantly worry about him. Thoughts on this Moms? Anyone gone this route before? Tim is also adopted and I DO NOT want him to feel abandoned. Thanks everyone. hugs & best wishes.