And he STILL does not get it!! difficult child and therapist were talking about the issues that have happened on the last three Sundays here at home. The therapist tells him that all three of these situations started because of something that difficult child did. The first one was difficult child throwing a tantrum because I would not take him to the toy store. The second one was difficult child lying to his father and getting caught in that lie, and the third one was another tantrum because I would not give him something that he was not allowed to have (extra vidoe game time). therapist explained that it was perfectly in my rights not to take him to the toy store or let him play his games early, and his father had every right to get angry when his son lies to him. difficult child's response? It's everyone else's fault. If I had simply taken him where he wanted to go, and given him the extra game time, and if husband had just walked away from the fact the difficult child told a blantant lie, none of these issues would have happened. It's all our fault! This is so incredibly frustrating! He refuses to see that almost all of the time the behavior starts with HIM and that if he made better choices he would not get into the trouble here at home that he gets into. I am so tired. Really, if I had my way I would have found a place to send him a long time ago. I deserve better. easy child deserves better. the only reason he's still here is because husband refuses to let me send him away. That's rich, right? husband refuses to let me send him away, but husband refuses to plug in and be a father. difficult child even have the religion teacher snowed! I had him go back to the teacher at the end of the class because he forgot to ask the teacher something, and the teacher tells me that difficult child is the only kid in the class that behaves. Everyone else is disruptive. I ask difficult child if he can do it at school and religion why can't he do it at home? He tells me is because the religion teacher is nice to him. AAARRRGGGHHH!!!