JJJ
Active Member
How he can maintain for 6 months at one school and not 2 days at the "better" school??? Yep, staff
I was livid, they did so many things wrong (his behavior plan calls for them to call me after 15 minutes of a problem, it went over an hour before they went to restraint but no one called). They said they had to restrain because he tried to leave the classroom. So? Where was the imminent danger to self or other??? The principal's response was he didn't know what the criteria was for a restraint but he couldn't wander this building the way he wandered his old school. I told him they better never lay hands on my child if there wasn't an imminent risk of harm.
On the good side, this staff seems to use restraint to help a child get control and move on where the old school (2nd-3rd grade that I withdrew him because they were restraining him for small things and inappropriately and people were getting hurt). They did deep pressure massage while in the restraint and kept telling him it was okay and he was okay. He reported that he thought the restraint was good as they did squishes and let him calm down.
The other good thing was they had him continue his day (with lighter expectations). The old school saw a restraint as a punishment and always sent him home -- usually suspended for the day.
I have very mixed emotions.
I was livid, they did so many things wrong (his behavior plan calls for them to call me after 15 minutes of a problem, it went over an hour before they went to restraint but no one called). They said they had to restrain because he tried to leave the classroom. So? Where was the imminent danger to self or other??? The principal's response was he didn't know what the criteria was for a restraint but he couldn't wander this building the way he wandered his old school. I told him they better never lay hands on my child if there wasn't an imminent risk of harm.
On the good side, this staff seems to use restraint to help a child get control and move on where the old school (2nd-3rd grade that I withdrew him because they were restraining him for small things and inappropriately and people were getting hurt). They did deep pressure massage while in the restraint and kept telling him it was okay and he was okay. He reported that he thought the restraint was good as they did squishes and let him calm down.
The other good thing was they had him continue his day (with lighter expectations). The old school saw a restraint as a punishment and always sent him home -- usually suspended for the day.
I have very mixed emotions.