Hi all, Heard from my son this morning because he and girlfriend need help in trying to secure this apartment they have been looking at. Sounds like they are being jerked around some by the apartment... and actually sounds like the apartment will refuse to rent to them!! It is defnitely the cheapest place around..... and where they are currently staying sounds horrible.... in general a very bad scene with a lot of drug use. Sounds like he is so far staying clean (because he does not want to land in jail) but it has to be the worst place for him. I can't tell you how angry I am at gfs mother for bringing him back here and then not letting him stay there. Anyway so I think to get an apartment I am going to need to cosign a lease. I had said I would not do this. I really don't want to on the one hand but I think I might have to if I want to help him get out of where he is at. I have not made any promises and I want to check any lease terms to find out what happens if they break the lease. I met with them today and suggested they start looking for other apartments as the place they have looked at is now saying a cosigner makes no difference unless they ask for a cosigner..... which just seems weird to me. So we shall see.... I think my son is having a pretty tough time right now which is ok.... but is hard to see. I feel so sad for the choices he has made that landed him where he is. At least he is working and staying off drugs for now.