K, you're right. No one can tell me what I want to hear cause what I want to hear is what will fix this. And no one knows that.
I am balking on the county board because there is nothing more the board can offer. Unless Wee is in the district in that city where the board meets, they can not offer services to the school. The other groups offer services to the family, to help in the home. There's no more to it. I can do it to "play nice" with the school, but I see it as nothing more than another waste of time.
Wee finally has what might be the piece he needs to be successful in school. At least a large piece. Its what we've been asking for since he started school 4 years ago. The conference is over the issues that happened prior to the 1:1's arrival.
I am sorry you feel that I am not hearing you...maybe others feel that way, too. I don't mean to be that way. I sometimes feel that others don't understand how rural we are. Such as moving Wee to a new district...if someone could tell me where to take him, someplace with a 70% certainty that they could handle him, I would. But if I pack up and move him, even to the district that has the alternative school, they will have to go thru all their motions and let Wee fail again in their programs before the alternative school becomes an option. Quite possibly it could take another year. Look around on the board? How many parents live in districts that are serving these children well? It seems to me that I'm better off fighting an enemy I know than running to the next and the next and the next. Maybe I'm wrong.
The other thing is, I know this is very touchy right now. I don't know what this district is trying to do, because unless I move, they are responsible for Wee's education. But that said, I will pull him if I need to. I don't want to. He has a shot right now...he has a teacher that understands him, a 1:1 working to get to the level the teacher is on, and he's learning and positive about learning. Thats more than he's had in quite some time. I'd like to give this 1:1 a shot. But I also see the writing on the wall. My exInLaws do not want me to home school him, but unless this 1:1 provides some DRASTIC imrprovement over what it was prior, I will have to, just to avoid your exact situation.
Basically, if they put him on any sort of probation, he can't go back to school. Period. I won't risk those idiots lack of ability to deal with him handling him.