I am writing this in follow up to my post about L getting caught making out with boyfriend's best friend, and boyfriend hitting her, and all of the aftermath that went with that. All of 3 days ago. Let me preface this by saying that I think that L is far more in need of mental health care than I had been willing to look at lately. And, that I don't know that I am asking for specific advice, I really want to know what you ladies would do in this situation. Right now I feel like there is nothing I can or should do. At least not pro-actively. I saw that L was on her facebook account today. I PM'd her "How are you doing?" Her reply was, "Pretty good. boyfriend been non-stop apologizing and says he'll do whatever it takes to make up for his behavior and get our relationship back on track. I'm going to go see him and talk to him tonight." husband and I have no doubt that she will be back with him by tomorrow. Is there anything you would do or say? Or would you just save your breath and your time?