Hi all, When I am tired and have no patience for all the little tricks and mental maneuvers we parents have to make to get what we need from our ODD's all the while avoiding a power struggle, and I let an issue escalate...well, what do I do once the little dude hits me, kicks me, etc.? My routine isn't working to keep him from getting physical the next time we have a disagreement...suggestions on how to handle wanted. Also, do we ever get to just tell them what we need them to do, and have them do just do it? Thanks! Must I Cuddle A Cactus?