Today is school picture day for difficult child. Her BFF came over to "help" with make up - at 6:30am!!. difficult child had asked me the night before if I could give her and BFF a ride to school this morning. Sure. Well... at 7:10 they were ready for their ride. easy child was still getting ready for school. School starts at 8:05 and they go to different schools. So... since I didn't want a melt down (not a pretty site after 30 minutes of make up application) I took them early. She was not pleasant on the way to school. Get home, and easy child realizes that her homework sheet is in her sisters binder. We call her BFF and ask to meet them (as school hasn't started yet and easy child would get a zero on her homework) Made arrangements to meet them. THEN... easy child and I get locked out of the house with out car keys. (Did I mention I had oral surgery yesterday and on pain medications?) So call BFF back and ask them to leave it in the school office. easy child rides her bike to a friend of ours who takes care of our cat when we are out of town to get the spare key. Then easy child and I go to the school to the office and NO PAPER! By now school is almost starting. easy child texts difficult child and asks where she left her paper... and she texts back that she has it in her binder! easy child asks for her to bring it to the office... NO! So I tell the office secretary to call difficult child to the office. easy child texts difficult child before secretary calls her and tells her I am having her called out of class. Guess what... then she asks the teacher if she can take paper to the office! The teacher actually walks across the hallway and gives it to easy child.
What the ???? After I take her to school early so she can "hang out" when she is all "decked out" she can't have the common decency to drop a paper in the office?? It is a large school and she was just across the hall! Not 4 buildings away! She walked past that office on the way to class.
I am furious. I hope I calm down before it is time to pick her up. And I did stress to her that I would be picking her up and she would be working on her room. I am tired of all the koi she puts us thru.
Then, this is what she posted to her FB account this morning: "Stupid idiots if u want to start **** well u picked the wrong person to start it with..." I don't know if this is referring to me... or some classmates. I think going to school early to "hang out with friends" is just a recipe for more drama and disaster. Her mouth is going to get her in trouble. She thinks she has to stick up for her BFF as an xbf and his new girlfriend is trashing her BFF. I have tried to tell her to stay out of other peoples drama... but no... her mouth is going to get her in to trouble and she isn't big enough to keep from getting beaten up. As husband says... "her mouth is going to write a check that her butt can't cash". Hadn't heard it put that way before... but probably is true.
I wish this day could start over... KSM
What the ???? After I take her to school early so she can "hang out" when she is all "decked out" she can't have the common decency to drop a paper in the office?? It is a large school and she was just across the hall! Not 4 buildings away! She walked past that office on the way to class.
I am furious. I hope I calm down before it is time to pick her up. And I did stress to her that I would be picking her up and she would be working on her room. I am tired of all the koi she puts us thru.
Then, this is what she posted to her FB account this morning: "Stupid idiots if u want to start **** well u picked the wrong person to start it with..." I don't know if this is referring to me... or some classmates. I think going to school early to "hang out with friends" is just a recipe for more drama and disaster. Her mouth is going to get her in trouble. She thinks she has to stick up for her BFF as an xbf and his new girlfriend is trashing her BFF. I have tried to tell her to stay out of other peoples drama... but no... her mouth is going to get her in to trouble and she isn't big enough to keep from getting beaten up. As husband says... "her mouth is going to write a check that her butt can't cash". Hadn't heard it put that way before... but probably is true.
I wish this day could start over... KSM