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  1. pasajes4

    Back for Support

    Dear Nomad, I have been following your journey in dealing with your daughter. You are absolutely doing the right thing by stopping the bank of mom and dad. You must make yourself and your husband a priority. We all need to do that. Nevermind what what others will say or how they might judge...
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    So nervous

    I wish you peace no matter what you decide to do.
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    Back for Support

    New Leaf, Nomad, and Love Tempered, Thank you for your kind words. I have shored myself up and have gotten over the guilt/grief train. The wonderful warrior parents on this site have gotten me through some of the worst days of my life. We all deserve peace in our lives. It is my prayer that...
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    Acacia, I agree. Allowing him back in my life would not do me or him any good. I do not know if I will ever be ready to have any kind of relationship with him. For the time being, I do not even want to know if my daughter has anything to do with him.
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    Thank you Cops. I have used the last several days to gather my wagons and reach out to my circle of support. I was given a visual of my situation. Imagine a ruler on the floor marked 1-80 to represent your lifespan. Stand at your current age and see how much time has passed. How much of that...
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    My daughter offered to assist them in contacting various agencies and in getting the children's birth certificates and shot records. The response was that child protective services was already involved and that they just wanted food and money. Something is just not adding up.
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    Thank you for your response. The children are not my son's. I do hope they are removed for their safety. Something is very off in this scenario. There are so many programs and resources for women and children in their city. I feel that there is a unsavory reason why she is not trying to get help...
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    Thank you for your response. Your suggestions resonate with me. I realize that I am dealing with PTSD due to this recent development, and I am stepping back so that I do not make any rash and emotional decisions.
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    I have not been on here for several years. My journey began when my son was a pre-teen. He is now 26. He is mentally ill and abuses drugs. Our relationship is non existent. I fully accept that I more than likely contributed to his difficulties even though that was never my intention ( hindsight...
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    I have the worst news ever. He’s deceased.

    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending many gentle hugs for your hurting mommy heart.
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    Good things are happening

    Kudos to you both.
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    Circle of support for an old member

    Sending prayers to our dear Janet, her son, and family.
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    Very disappointed. 19yo DGD pregnant...

    I am so sorry to hear this. There are resources availaible, medicaide for pregnant women, wic for pregnant women (provides food and helps connect with other resources). I will be praying for you. It does not sound like a good situation.
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    I haven't posted here since 2014

    Just stopped by to let you know that your words will inspire others.
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    Update

    Leafy, you are an amazing warrior grandmother. I am praying that things will turn around for your grands. One breath at a time sweet Leafy.
  16. pasajes4

    The Sweetest Thing

    Gentle hugs for your grieving family. The kids reading to their father moved me to tears. Know that you and your family are loved by everyone here. .
  17. pasajes4

    Losing the Love of My Life

    Susie, My heart is breaking for you. I am happy to hesr how well your kids are handling it.
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    The FB post

    How horrible for you. My heart goes out to you.
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    The Weekend Woes, Again. ((sigh..))

    You deserve peace snd happiness. If this eas not your child, you would not put up with his behavior. It helped me to practive distancing myself emotionally. It took a long time to get to the point where I could seperate my emotions when dealing with my kiddo. The older he gets the easier it has...
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    Prayer request

    Prayers
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