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  1. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Hello everyone, I don't have any updates on my son's front, except that he is still working (amazing) and living with whoever still. He's hired a lawyer at great expense and decided to take a couple of days off and go on a trip 3 hours away by himself to 'get away'. In the meantime, I have...
  2. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Thank you! I haven't posted in a couple of weeks but I just felt something was going on. Women's (mother's) intuition is strange isn't it?
  3. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Thanks, I guess he is not as stable as I thought, he just checked in to a hotel. Why does my heart hurt so bad for someone who tried to destroy me? This is so hard!
  4. bluebell

    back after a few years

    And he keeps asking if we have lifted the no contact order. Is he living in a dreamland? It's not like he's apologized or anything. He just says he was blackout drunk, but when I mentioned he almost killed his dad, he said 'Noone almost died'. How does he know if he was blackout drunk? He...
  5. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Just an update, my son was hounding me about the charges he received thru texts, what was going to happen him, etc. I told him to get a lawyer. He said he couldn't afford one. He's living with someone and still working (amazingly), so I told him he needs to call one and see what they charge...
  6. bluebell

    18yo Son Update

    New Leaf, my son was charged with a felony terroristic threatening charge, along with several assault and battery charges earlier this month also for attacking his father. My son is 27 and he has done this several times since he was a teenager but this is his first charge as an adult. I just...
  7. bluebell

    back after a few years

    @MommaTried24 I'm so sorry about your birthday. My son ruined mine this last year too. It's hard to keep saying 'there's always next year' when we are all getting older.
  8. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Thank you all! I got a really bad Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) (I always do this after one of my son's stunts, even before cancer). I was really sick but feeling better now. Truth is stranger than fiction when it comes to my son. He's living with someone he works with apparently and it looks like he has made a...
  9. bluebell

    back after a few years

    My scans were clear! I will have two more treatments and will be finished in July. Have to take hormone blockers for years but so far so good! Thank you all for your support and kind words! Detachment is hard.
  10. bluebell

    back after a few years

    I remember you too NewLeaf! I'm so sorry you are still dealing with this. These words mean so much to me, as you can imagine I cannot talk to anyone about this. I told my brother who lives in another state and he just asks if I'm pressing charges and then nothing else. Pisses me off since he...
  11. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Thank you all! And copa - I remember you from years ago and I do think of you often. Apparently he bailed himself out with a credit card yesterday, gave him his stuff back and he called my daughter's boyfriend from his phone to pick him up and they had a plan to get him to work but the jail...
  12. bluebell

    back after a few years

    The bail bondsmen are blowing up my phone right now. I am not answering. My husband and daughter are against bailing him out. They are yelling at me for considering it. I mean they are right he probably wouldn't go to work tonight even if he got a hotel and we got his car out of the shop...
  13. bluebell

    back after a few years

    Guys, I can't believe I am back here. My son I thought was doing better, he has gotten off the hard drugs, graduated college (with a lot of help and nagging) with honors, took him over a year to look for and find a job that he started two months ago. He was living with my mother in law since 2020...
  14. bluebell

    I am back. :(

    Thank you all, and good to hear from you again RN! I am trying very hard to control my guilt that I have not done enough or what society thinks a 'daughter' (in my dad's situation) or a 'mother' (in my son's). In the end, though, I am a mortal human and I have taken to telling myself this over...
  15. bluebell

    I am back. :(

    Well, I am back, unfortunately. My son came back home 3 years ago, went back to college and is now 5 classes (one semester) away from a business degree in Supply Chain/Logistics with a 3.8 GPA. He has lived with my 92 year old mother in law with dementia for the past year a few miles down the road from...
  16. bluebell

    Embracing his failure

    Well, unfortunately that didn't last long. He got us caught up in his tornado of problems. He took his friend dying very hard and not that I know what a breakdown really is - but I think he had one. And me along with it. Now somehow - it's a blur - he is back in the house and has no car, no...
  17. bluebell

    Embracing his failure

    Copa, I agree with everything you said! I think maybe I have just been thru this so many times and plus knowing there is a mother who will be burying her son tomorrow really puts things into perspective. Of course, him not being in my physical presence is a complete boon for all of us. I...
  18. bluebell

    Embracing his failure

    Haven't been on here in a few weeks. Our family, son included, took a trip to meet my husband's biological mother. It went well it was a short trip except my son got drunk and skipped one of the 2 days of vacation to stay in bed. That was embarrassing but no one seemed to take note, he didn't...
  19. bluebell

    Dieting question Copa or others...Keto with fasting

    Elsi, Yes, a lot of the poses increase your eye pressure. I think instead of wanting to learn about yoga, she just said best not to until we find something that works or refer me for surgery to get the pressure down. I have a swimming pool and bought a scuba mask so that pressure would be...
  20. bluebell

    Dieting question Copa or others...Keto with fasting

    I wish I could do yoga again Elsi! I have glaucoma that is at present uncontrolled and Dr. put a stop to it. I am so bummed about that whole thing. It's probably related to inflammation/carbs too. Wouldn't it be wonderful if I went full Keto and a lot of these things got better (probably not...
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