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    Desperate mom needs advice!!!

    It sounds like you are doing everything you can as a parent to help your child but don't forget to take care of yourself. I agree with the others it does sounds like its more than adhd and needs further evaluation...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Well court has to be rescheduled d/t a jury trial that carried over from the weekend. Now the bio dad is out of jail and will most likely try to contact for visitation. I don't feel like he should get it- why does my grand daughter have to do deal with him coming in and out of her life....
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    19 yr son who steals.

    As difficult and a pain in the a** it is to change your accounts you have to. Go to your apple account change your settings to require a password to download apps then change your main password so he won't be able to redownload it. I also have a safe, its bolted to the wall. The keys are hidden...
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    Struggling with decisions

    So court is coming up in 1 week. Visited with my attorney last week. He doesn't seem to think there will be an issue with finalizing custody but I am always cautious when it comes to things out of my control. I explained this fear to my attorney and he said he will be reminding the judge that...
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    Struggling with decisions

    She got it back and continued to allow her to use it but not as much. Not for lack of DS trying. Then it wouldn't start and the starter is out.. so she hasn't had a choice. She is starting to see the issue but her sister uses her ways to get what she wants.... that's how the fight started...
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    Struggling with decisions

    I currently have temp custody and the final hearing is sept. 19th.
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    Gaslighting or Our Fault?

    I wouldn't ask him if he was up to date on his payments. I started not asking and it was nice not to have the conversation where she asks me for money lol
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    Struggling with decisions

    i could scream sometimes.....well the car issue became a physical fight between the two siblings because the youngest got tired of not having her car but cs ( the youngest who owns the car) gave in to DS (the in trouble one and mom to grandbaby) basically let her drive the car to drop her off at...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Bright thinking isn't it and I see it in this generation of kids. Not every kid but you still see it. She doesn't use my car. I refuse to allow her to use it. The car she is driving is her sisters but it is in my name until she gets a license which I need to check I may be able to gift it to her...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Thats what i think as well....thanks
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    Struggling with decisions

    Thanks Ill take it.....she is good at pestering and begging until she gets what she wants then cusses you when she doesn't. She knows she won't ever live with me that is a hands down no
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    Struggling with decisions

    So we got a date for finalizing the custody orders. Its scheduled the day before the bio dad gets out of jail. He currently has visitation orders for every 2 weeks at chuck e cheese and Im glad the hearing is before he gets out because I was definitely tired of having to show up knowing he...
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    Struggling with decisions

    The daughter that is the big issue -criminal crap and my gd mother isn't the one who bought the car thats the youngest who is a full time college student and bought the car herself. I don't do anything at all for the one calling the names. Well i would go pick her up or get the occasional pack...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Well it's been a little while since I've posted and things haven't really changed . We do finally have a final hearing for custody in September. I am not sure if my daughter is aware of this court hearing it or not. Thanks have not really changed with her. Her pending charge for the money...
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    Desperate for peace

    Has he been evaluated by psychiatric? Are there any private behavioral schools ran by a mental health agency or private doctor? Here we have one called rose street-its ran by the doctors in that practice- take insurance and Medicaid- have counselors ect....Sounds like some inpatient tx and diagnosis...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Yes she is still at my moms - who is a softy- she did tell me she slept really good with her wallet in the safe though so that's helpful..\
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    Struggling with decisions

    Hello all. It has been some times since I have posted and some things have happened. First off, the job she had she got fired from. It was at 7-11. Apparently a money order came up missing. She said she misprinted one and placed where she was supposed to. On the camera it shows her picking up...
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    Struggling with decisions

    I just wonder if she can fight the finalization of the temporary orders. All she heard at the initial custody hearing was the judge say she needed to get her charges taken care of before she could get her back. in her mind receiving probation for all of her charges means they are taken care of...
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    Struggling with decisions

    Well its been a month and a 1/2 since she got out of jail. She is no longer living at my sisters as I knew they were to much alike and it wouldn't work out so my mom gave in and is letting her stay there. Her probation officer got her a job and she has been there a little over a week. My...
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    Struggling with decisions

    She received 10 yrs probation and has 17 charges she pled to or received time served on. She is going to have such a difficult time making it with all of that. But I am standing my ground and we will see how long it is before she is cussing me out. My sister is picking her up and bringing her to...
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