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Yes, it is hard to let them go when we tell ourselves maybe they can't do it alone. Not true moms.

Hi, yes same boat here. My son is 46. In prison again. He will get out this December couple days before his birthday. Have already told him not to count on coming here. The last few times he lived with me was insane. Meth made him believe he had bugs living inside him. I could not see the...

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Hi gosh, your story and mine are so similar. We seem to have the same son, I understand your worries. I also know we can become too busy trying to fix things. I like to listen to "Put the shovel down" on youtube. She is in addiction recovery counsel and has great advice for family and addicts.

So sorry for the loss of your dear sister. And yes our fur friends we can count on for comfort. People will disappoint I know I currently disappoint people as I am having some health issues that cause fatigue. Seems visiting just wears me out. I am better at home with my sweet fur babies. I...

sorry, dear one over the loss of your sister, my greatest sympathy. Glad you had your fur baby to keep you company :) They are so wonderful at giving us comfort.

Hi Broken heart. Yes, I do know the pain of no contact. Changed my phone # last time my son left out of here. He had told me he would rather be homeless than live here. Told me I was a control freak. :) I gave him my truck. Which I think he earned as he dug out a new french drain on the...

I got to the point no news was good news! yikes what kind of mother says that? 65 year old tired mother that is who.

I remember asking my dad for money one time in my life. And he told me he did not have a money tree. And did I not just get my income tax return? Needless to say, he did not send money. And I never asked again. Lesson learned. I am glad he did what he did. It made me grow up and figure this...

Hi Hurting mom, omg does your story sound familiar to me? I hope you and your husband can get on the same page about your son. Giving him your money to flip houses is a bad choice. Yes, son needs to get busy or drown. But let him do it with his own money. Do not give him a dime. There is a...

Hi Nomore, often wondered if my son is bipolar, when he was a teen took him to see someone they said he was diagnosed with depression. of course, he would not take medications for depression so he would not take them for any other mental health issue. He thinks Meth is the answer to his mental...

Hi mixedupmom, same boat here. my son is 46 was homeless now in jail. Lucky for me he is not in the same state I live in. I gave him my truck couple of years ago so he could leave here. boy that was a mistake. But codependent/enabler I am. But him gone is much better than him living with...

Hi, sorry we are all in the same boat. Or should I say roller-coaster? My son is 46, homeless, has drug issues and has pending warrants. Not one state but two states want him. He swears he will die by police before he goes back to jail/prison. So he wants me to buy him a bus ticket to...

Hi, just found this forum again. I am not very good with forums.