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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 452544" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>MWM, I wouldn't be just looking at the main adult males in the family. Equally likely, possibly even more likely, are male relatives or friends of the family who can actually seek out opportunities like this. Single parents can be befriended (wooed) by pedophiles in order to get access to the children. </p><p></p><p>I also think this other girl is possibly at risk. Her influence alone could be where much of this is coming from. </p><p></p><p>If I look back to when I was 11, I could have been seen as a bad influence in a similar way. I was not molested or abused. But I also had zero information plus an enquiring mind - a dangerous combination! I was noting the changes in my body, I was examining them in detail and sharing my findings with my best friend, encouraging her to find out for herself too. My mother told me nothing in the mistaken belief that innocence would protect me. The trouble was, innocence made me more vulnerable. I was like a young bonobo... absolutely no imposed inhibitions.</p><p></p><p>When I look back now, I cringe. Amazingly, I am still friends with the girl who I shared those intimate confidences with.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 452544, member: 1991"] MWM, I wouldn't be just looking at the main adult males in the family. Equally likely, possibly even more likely, are male relatives or friends of the family who can actually seek out opportunities like this. Single parents can be befriended (wooed) by pedophiles in order to get access to the children. I also think this other girl is possibly at risk. Her influence alone could be where much of this is coming from. If I look back to when I was 11, I could have been seen as a bad influence in a similar way. I was not molested or abused. But I also had zero information plus an enquiring mind - a dangerous combination! I was noting the changes in my body, I was examining them in detail and sharing my findings with my best friend, encouraging her to find out for herself too. My mother told me nothing in the mistaken belief that innocence would protect me. The trouble was, innocence made me more vulnerable. I was like a young bonobo... absolutely no imposed inhibitions. When I look back now, I cringe. Amazingly, I am still friends with the girl who I shared those intimate confidences with. Marg [/QUOTE]
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