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11 yr old girl and her curiousity
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 452655" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Play therapy is a good way for younger kids. Therapy in general is another way. My kids did not want to talk about it and did not talk much about it to us. Certain special therapists got them to talk. Still...on top of my two younger kids being abused by their adoptive brother (who is now no longer with us), my oldest daughter was raped at her friend's house. A friend of a friend of a friend who was visiting raped her when the friend's mother and the friend were in the kitchen cooking and my daughter was waiting for her alone in her bedroom. He came upstairs, covered her mouth and just raped her. She was eight years old. Afterwards, she didn't tell anybody, including her friend, washed up, and tried to act normal. We did not suspect and did not know about it until she blurted it out at me at age fourteen. How do you find out? I don't know. Often, kids don't want to talk about it or feel ashamed. My daughter said she felt ashamed. She showed us that something was wrong by her behavior...although she did not act out sexually, she started using drugs at the young age of twelve. </p><p></p><p>I really hope it isn't that, but you may want to have a talk with bio. father about watching her closely when he has people trapsing in and out of his house. Who are they anyway?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 452655, member: 1550"] Play therapy is a good way for younger kids. Therapy in general is another way. My kids did not want to talk about it and did not talk much about it to us. Certain special therapists got them to talk. Still...on top of my two younger kids being abused by their adoptive brother (who is now no longer with us), my oldest daughter was raped at her friend's house. A friend of a friend of a friend who was visiting raped her when the friend's mother and the friend were in the kitchen cooking and my daughter was waiting for her alone in her bedroom. He came upstairs, covered her mouth and just raped her. She was eight years old. Afterwards, she didn't tell anybody, including her friend, washed up, and tried to act normal. We did not suspect and did not know about it until she blurted it out at me at age fourteen. How do you find out? I don't know. Often, kids don't want to talk about it or feel ashamed. My daughter said she felt ashamed. She showed us that something was wrong by her behavior...although she did not act out sexually, she started using drugs at the young age of twelve. I really hope it isn't that, but you may want to have a talk with bio. father about watching her closely when he has people trapsing in and out of his house. Who are they anyway? [/QUOTE]
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